I am a product of love, love is not just a word to me, love is not just that song that brings goosebumps when sang, more than just what i have been told about Love, but what have been imprinted in me.
This is a beautiful song of love to which most of us are attracted to in the relationships we posses/relationships that we are in, most of us have never lived a life that is in its entirety been made out of pure love not just words and broken promises. Most of us can not love because of what they believe Love to be/what it represents.
Sentimental Love is the ability of character and life that we breath in the word love, making such a word reality and meaning to all relationships we may find ourselves in. I believe you and I can make a meaning out of the sentiment Love brings in this Sentimental Love.
A lot of us have assumed that leadership makes one more respected and powerful, we have desired to be in leadership for the packs leadership comes with not the responsibilities it possess, hence we have cowards more than commanders in our leaders today.
Most of our leaders believe that once they have the reigns power and respect automatically comes as they assume the position of leadership, may I just say that most leaders today are so blind and continue to lead the blind organisations and corporations who are more focused on how they hired them in position in the first place. Such leaders have not crumbled because of either two or three individuals in their organisations who play their parts responsibly and they seem to be on top because of such individuals.
Solidarity of Leadership is the character within to understand the greatness and responsibility of role both in and outside the corporate, taking responsibility to earn respect for actions taken in a collective.
Let us all be solid in our leadership roles as we progress in excellence
As we grow old we tend to develop certain ways of doing things, sometimes these hard habits we develop ruin or make relationships much better.
There are habits that we develop that stroke our egos and throwing our relationships out of the window, we often look more to ourselves as the unstoppable and untouchable people hence our relationship skills suffer. There is no relationship with no love, not the love we promise and proclaim to be but the love we demonstrate, most of us forget that Love is more of a doing word than a saying of the word.
Temperate love is the ability to live in love demonstration of what one says, selfish ways and egos become nothing in love, let our relationships be filled with this beautiful Temperate Love, and we become a much better people.
We often cry foul when we loose relationships, we blame anything and anyone for whatever may have happened in our lost relationships.
Sometimes we need to sit down and reflect on what contributed to our relationships to end, what was our role in the whole process of the relationship not working, what is it we could have done better to make things better in that same relationship. A lot of us are quick to judge, quick to blame before we look into how we contribute towards failure of our relationships.
Trinity of Love is knowing how to keep records of what your bad habits are, how these can be corrected, knowing that no one is perfect all of us are work in progress, that is just the wonderful trinity of love, I believe and hope that you and I can do the best we can to rectify mistakes of our failed relationships as we seek for better relationships in life, let’s just love one another.
There are times when what you admire seem not to be noticeable by yourself or the one/thing admired, that makes us loose a lot of interest in an thing/person.
There are may of us who have not forgiven or believed in forgiving their families, friends, exes, and maybe spauses present, we are no longer at that place that we were when we first saw them, when we first knew them, it is now more of a burden to look at them with the same eyes you used to look at them, its all OK.
Love is not just a feeling, it is more than what you feel, it is the impact of life that one gets when they see you or when they hear about you, we seem to get carried away by the way we feel when we are with a certain type of individuals, the way we want to quench that thirst of finishing our lustful desires on that individual or thing. We forget to love and embrace the person as them, meaning at that time when they hurt you, that time when they are not what you expect them to be, that is titillating and more surprising to most of us that we don’t have that i love the person that you are than love the person bearing benefits I can have.
Titillating love is the credibility of still feeling excited about the person that you claim to love despite whatever wrongs/flaws they may have, apreciating them for the worst and the best they are.
I believe you and I can still find that titillating love I all we do
There is no holding back in what you can visualise and see happening, we are a people and we do get carried away with different things in life which in turn makes us loose sight of the most greatest things life can ever bring to us.
Most of us do not have not because we are not deserving we do not have because we lake vision, when we achieve we stop thinking further than what we have right now, we have become a right now society, where we celebrate and continue to celebrate until our celebrations become history. We as a people have celebrated too much of history than keep celebrating the present, we don’t hunger anymore after we’ve had a little success.
Have the sensational enthusiasm to get more, believe that you were not born just to achieve but outlive any success you achieve, believe you can even if the odds are stacked up against you, the best are not satisfied by position, they are positioned for satisfaction.
Sensational Success is the tangible reality of achievement, the hunger to surpass what is achieved, excellence in productivity of dreams and ideas, a sentiment of choice to stand beyond obstacles. You are your own hero, for heroes to become heroes they became their own heroes first, so just keep dreaming and dream Big
We make it because we want to make it, we get challenges that are bigger because we can afford to go a mile higher. Most of us are too reluctant to become the best we can ever be, this is because we are very comfortable with excuses.
Making it is no one else’s initiative it is your own, don’t live a life that is full of excuses as to why you have not made it to your excellence and dedication to your passion and dreams. A lot of us have dreams and ideas so great that it often scares them on how to execute them, hence excuses become part of their lives. We are all given a chance or chances in life the difference between those that make it and those that don’t is that those that make it are dedicated to finishing what they start and they take their chances, hence those who don’t make it are full of excuses as to why they could not achieve or take their chances given to them.
Sensible Success is the combination of sacrifice and dedication, the passion of excellence in taking chances given, producing passion in whatever you truly are Good at. It’s always what you are good at that paves a way towards success for you, no one else can do it for you but yourself.
Most Of us are dreamers, most of us are gifted in every aspect of our lives, most of us can achieve our dreams and desires, most of us can do much more than what we can do in our present state.
There is a lot we can achieve in our lives, we can make our dreams and ideas to become reality, no one is holding us back at getting the best out of ourselves than ourselves, most people are not where they are in life because they are looking for a crowd to travel with them through their journey to success, may I be real with someone, if you are waiting for a crowd or someone to approach you in regards to your passion and desire, your wait is still long because everyone you are waiting for are traveling their own journey to excellence and you can also be a number they need to achieve their dreams. The only team you should have to start living your dreams is yourself no one else, start believing in yourself, have confidence in yourself, do something for yourself not doing it to prove a point, compete with yourself not anybody. You can do it yourself, if you don’t believe in yourself, you will keep believing in other people’s dreams and yours lacking life.
Trendy succeess is the authority you possess beyond inspiration and anyone that believes you can be whatever you want to be, an honest excellence in life of believing no one else but yourself in achieving your dreams and desires in whatever you are truly Good at. Stop wasting your time waiting for someone to believe in your dreams, you can do it on your own
There is greatness in knowing that whatever you are also reflects on others whichever way it is that you may think or do, your actions have an impact on someone else, hence leadership of any kind reflects on those we lead.
There are a lot of us today as leaders that believe that our experiences in life may be the kind of life we would love others to live by, no matter the hardships you may have faced in your life as an individual, it doesn’t mean that you aught to implement the same hardships on those who we lead. Leaders today fail to achieve the best possible outcomes for their organisations because they don’t find simple ways of understanding the ways and struggles of each and every individual in their team.
Adorable leadership entails the excellence in productivity of the collective, understanding the power of unison to achieve the best in productivity of any organisation, Business or institution. You and I can be the best leaders of our organisations, businesses and institutions if we understand that leadership is not for self gratification but for a collective purpose
Authority is not in what you can say or what you are capable of doing, it is in ones character, most leaders have failed to build characters of themselves however wanting to have an impact on others.
Your character is your best key to authority, you can not have authority without character, no matter how much power you possess without character you have only power not authority. There is a difference between authority and power, power is capability to do, authority is the influence to achieve and do, and influence to do is only achieved through character not what you are capable of doing.
Most of our leaders today have a notion that having power is all they need to have the authority over organisations and institutions or businesses they run, let me be frank with us leaders, power is money, resources you have to own something, but it doesn’t mean if you own it they will respect you, authority is the influence which you can have by the way you carry yourself after an acquisition which can simply be said to be your character.
Affirmitive Leadership is the power of character that exceeds ego, achievement and desires, it is the ability to influence through work and deeds.
Let us all affirm our leadership aspect and become champions that create other champions