I am a product of love, love is not just a word to me, love is not just that song that brings goosebumps when sang, more than just what i have been told about Love, but what have been imprinted in me.
This is a beautiful song of love to which most of us are attracted to in the relationships we posses/relationships that we are in, most of us have never lived a life that is in its entirety been made out of pure love not just words and broken promises. Most of us can not love because of what they believe Love to be/what it represents.
Sentimental Love is the ability of character and life that we breath in the word love, making such a word reality and meaning to all relationships we may find ourselves in. I believe you and I can make a meaning out of the sentiment Love brings in this Sentimental Love.
A lot of us have assumed that leadership makes one more respected and powerful, we have desired to be in leadership for the packs leadership comes with not the responsibilities it possess, hence we have cowards more than commanders in our leaders today.
Most of our leaders believe that once they have the reigns power and respect automatically comes as they assume the position of leadership, may I just say that most leaders today are so blind and continue to lead the blind organisations and corporations who are more focused on how they hired them in position in the first place. Such leaders have not crumbled because of either two or three individuals in their organisations who play their parts responsibly and they seem to be on top because of such individuals.
Solidarity of Leadership is the character within to understand the greatness and responsibility of role both in and outside the corporate, taking responsibility to earn respect for actions taken in a collective.
Let us all be solid in our leadership roles as we progress in excellence
As we grow old we tend to develop certain ways of doing things, sometimes these hard habits we develop ruin or make relationships much better.
There are habits that we develop that stroke our egos and throwing our relationships out of the window, we often look more to ourselves as the unstoppable and untouchable people hence our relationship skills suffer. There is no relationship with no love, not the love we promise and proclaim to be but the love we demonstrate, most of us forget that Love is more of a doing word than a saying of the word.
Temperate love is the ability to live in love demonstration of what one says, selfish ways and egos become nothing in love, let our relationships be filled with this beautiful Temperate Love, and we become a much better people.
Constantly I sat down thinking of how hard my life has been, how my mother had to leave me in the care of my father at six months, how I get told I had to be breast fed by my dads mother who is my grandmother by the way, all these situations make one thinks obviously this kid was messed up from the word go.
Most of us become more concerned about how they lived a life that had no mother, no father, no love and maybe a few relationships here and there, this has an effect on how they do things, how they love, how they don’t know how to love and all these other excuses that may keep them in these unspeakable things they do in the name of not being loved enough.
Terrific Love is the passion of creativity and choice of character that no matter ones past, their future is to be lived in greatness, remember love is a lifelong journey and whatever you choose to be in any relationship it’s all you, no one else is responsible for your choices. Let’s just love without excuses and experience this terrific love.
So many relationships are in trouble but because of their insensitive things that the relationship brings, a lot of us are still holding on to these relationships that are crumbling day in and day out.
We as a human race have changed the meaning of Love, when one today claims to love it means there is a particular thing they love you for/something you bring to the table that they don’t have. Our relationships today are not governed by love but governed by whatever value we have both in the society and in our personal life, we love things more than the provider of those things, such that when a relationship ends one remains either worse off than when they got in the relationship or have more than they bargained for in that relationship.
The Balance of Love is understanding the sentimental value of an individual before understanding the influence they have in a relationship. Let’s all love because we understand an individual not understanding gains we can have from an individual, I believe we all can find this Balance of Love
We often cry foul when we loose relationships, we blame anything and anyone for whatever may have happened in our lost relationships.
Sometimes we need to sit down and reflect on what contributed to our relationships to end, what was our role in the whole process of the relationship not working, what is it we could have done better to make things better in that same relationship. A lot of us are quick to judge, quick to blame before we look into how we contribute towards failure of our relationships.
Trinity of Love is knowing how to keep records of what your bad habits are, how these can be corrected, knowing that no one is perfect all of us are work in progress, that is just the wonderful trinity of love, I believe and hope that you and I can do the best we can to rectify mistakes of our failed relationships as we seek for better relationships in life, let’s just love one another.
Leadership is never about self, every time one decides to be in a position of leadership they cease to be themselves or should I say they loose the right to be selfish.
Leadership is taking on responsibilities of both yourself and others, it’s never about yourself, most leaders have forgotten that there are decisions they make that have a greater impact on the collective.
Sacrificial Leadership is the adoption of success for the collective other than self, so we can either think bigger than ourselves to accomplish the goals and desires of others in our care, or kill everyone’s dreams for our selfish gains. Let’s all be sacrificial leaders for our organisations and companies so we can grow together with our teams.
There are times when what you admire seem not to be noticeable by yourself or the one/thing admired, that makes us loose a lot of interest in an thing/person.
There are may of us who have not forgiven or believed in forgiving their families, friends, exes, and maybe spauses present, we are no longer at that place that we were when we first saw them, when we first knew them, it is now more of a burden to look at them with the same eyes you used to look at them, its all OK.
Love is not just a feeling, it is more than what you feel, it is the impact of life that one gets when they see you or when they hear about you, we seem to get carried away by the way we feel when we are with a certain type of individuals, the way we want to quench that thirst of finishing our lustful desires on that individual or thing. We forget to love and embrace the person as them, meaning at that time when they hurt you, that time when they are not what you expect them to be, that is titillating and more surprising to most of us that we don’t have that i love the person that you are than love the person bearing benefits I can have.
Titillating love is the credibility of still feeling excited about the person that you claim to love despite whatever wrongs/flaws they may have, apreciating them for the worst and the best they are.
I believe you and I can still find that titillating love I all we do
There is no holding back in what you can visualise and see happening, we are a people and we do get carried away with different things in life which in turn makes us loose sight of the most greatest things life can ever bring to us.
Most of us do not have not because we are not deserving we do not have because we lake vision, when we achieve we stop thinking further than what we have right now, we have become a right now society, where we celebrate and continue to celebrate until our celebrations become history. We as a people have celebrated too much of history than keep celebrating the present, we don’t hunger anymore after we’ve had a little success.
Have the sensational enthusiasm to get more, believe that you were not born just to achieve but outlive any success you achieve, believe you can even if the odds are stacked up against you, the best are not satisfied by position, they are positioned for satisfaction.
Sensational Success is the tangible reality of achievement, the hunger to surpass what is achieved, excellence in productivity of dreams and ideas, a sentiment of choice to stand beyond obstacles. You are your own hero, for heroes to become heroes they became their own heroes first, so just keep dreaming and dream Big
There is power in all of us in everything we do, the power is then reduced to force when we don’t develop to make power Mighty, a lot of our leadership today is more of what they are not able to do than what they are truly able to.
We have leaders in today’s world who are much concerned about their image more than their character, most of our leaders today spend too much time building an image than building their characters, they say that an empty vessel makes the loudest noise, such is our leaders in today’s world, they have no substance yet they speak about substance, they have the image but that is not enough to maintain harmony, peace, inspiration, impact and dedication of excellence in their organisations, institutions and businesses.
How you look does not count much, it is what you possess as an individual in your character that makes the cut in Leadership, you can not be an inspiration to people you don’t know about.
Able leadership is the influence of character in excellence towards a people that are interested in doing great, the hunger of consistency in character to achieve the common goal of the collective.
Let us all be excellent leaders in our organisations, institutions and businesses