A lot of times we often want to model people the way we think and do things, we forget that everyone is different, they are a different person in their own right, they were born and raised different from us that makes them their own individual.
Most of us in today’s relationships we enter in them out of reason to want to make a person to the way we want that particular individual to be in our own making, it’s not that we love the person but we feel obligated to make certain changes in their lives so that we can take a lot of credit for who they have become if they become some version of what we actually desired them to be.
Love stands on its own it doesn’t change one person for another but grows both individuals for the best of themselves, thus is a sentiment of Love, you and I can enjoy the best of it when we skip the want to fix something and somebody syndrome
We can have that sentiment of Love and build prosperous relationships
There are ways in which we always try to hold on to what we believe is the best, it is however that sometimes no matter how great and beautiful what we try to hold on to if it has no love in it then we are as good as having nothing
In beginning of relationships it is ideal that we set our purpose as to what relationships we desire and how we would want these relationships to grow. Most of us do not have any idea as to why they are in relationships they are in, they just in it for fun no plan.
When you plant something from it’s seed form you have the expect growth and you expect to reep at the end of it all, most of us in our relationships we have invested every single thing available to the world yet we still don’t make the cut, there is a simple thing that one needs to invest it is the seed of love once you invest this, you definitely have the best of your relationships
Our lives are such beautiful and busy, at all cost we try to accommodate the very essence of relationships.
Our relationships in our today’s world lake a cirtain spark which keeps relationships together for a long time, this thing is trust, most of our relationships lake trust because we enter in these relationships with only what we can get out of them.
We now have what can be termed as pay as you go Love in our relationships, we happen to be in relationships for certain aspects of things we can get out of them, we often use love as the face of what we want, we do not care weather there is trust and honesty in it as long as we get what we need from it.
Trust and love go hand in hand hence they say love is patient and kind, kindness go hand in hand with trust, so are we going to love for the sake of love and trust in one another, or we are just going to be in relationships just for the sake of what we can get out of them?
Its just trusting love and I’m dedicated to it are there still some of us that still do as I am?
We all at times have been hurt and the hurt is not from those we don’t know and trust but those we truly care for and trust amicably.
A lot of us in our relationships often let a great door open for exiting in our relationships it’s very hard at times to establish stable ways of working our relationships there is a bond that keeps us together as a people this is the bond of love.
No matter how much we are hurt as a people we should learn the golden rule of love which is forgiveness, forgive those that hurt you and keep the bond of love strong
My beautiful heart started as a whole loving caring, beautiful heart, now what is left of it are holes punched by those I trusted and are dear to me.
No matter how much we protect and give our best in our relationships there is always that little thing that disappoints us as a people, it may be family, romantic relationships there is always that person that have their own ideas on how relationships should be and the direction they should take.
No matter how much hurt you have been in every relationship you are in or have been in the evidence of Love is when you learn to forgive in that moment of pain, allowing your pain to make you a better person in building your relationships
Remember it’s just evidence of Love
You and I can survive the worst and come out the best
Relationships are the most wonderful things on earth, they may at times be hard work, no matter what relationships you are in as a person you can either make it better or worse than what it is now, the choice is always yours.
A relationship either family or romantic relationship has to always have a base, the foundation, then the overall structure, most of us dwell on the foundation and overall structures of their relationship, they don’t make efforts to make their relationships much better and stronger
Love has its principles however these principles guide us creativity has to play a part in building our relationships. A lot of us say the word I love you and expect everything to fall in place by itself, may I say Love is a doing word not a theory, as per the principles of Love it is kind, unselfish, giving and forgiving, further it is not jeolous so there we go be creative in your relationship and it will make it easy to utter the word I love you with confidence knowing it has completed its meaning
Peace has never been viewed as the prosperous prospect of humanity co-existing, politicians and religious leaders have enjoyed the power they gain from avoiding the masses in the process of peace.
There is nothing that is more demeaning than two sides that know what is meant to be done but choose not to do it, politicians and religious leaders have in years been provocative of each other’s egos at the expense of the people.
This world today deserves politicians and religious leaders to usher their people into the rights and freedom of knowing the presence of peace within their own domain, they should educate their followers who are the real owners of peace about emicable ways of negotiating peace.
Peace for everyone in the world is needed, United Nations and the world over, until when shall the people suffer in wars that can be prevented, it is my duty and your duty to make the image of peace much visible to those that don’t see it
Till peace returns
This is my image of peace and my stamp on this blog I stamp to satify it’s authenticity