There is nothing that is so exciting than the love that we enjoy having as a people, most of us have not managed to keep relationships because of the way we handle ourselves in such relationships that we have/desire to have.
in most cases a lot of us are always crying about how we are all alone and no one is willing or even has the nerve to ask us out or to ask if we are are in a relationship or not, we often say that there is no one that wants us and no one wants to be with us i any given way, may i just say that there is no one that dose not want to be with anyone, however the behavior of us as a human race distances us from the realities of love as a passport to a great relationship that we may desire.
Our language in our own as a people in families has to tell someone on the outside what kind of an individual one is, most of us believe that whatever we say becomes the law, we believe that we are the reason for everyone to live on egg shells around us, this is why at times we feel lonely and deserted because of the way we speak and act. Have you ever wondered as a human being how many relationships have you as a person ruined up for yourself? just reflect and look into the way that you handle yourself around people. Love is kind, true, giving, forgiving and unselfish, it may be that there is only one or two principles of love that you are not following that is the reason why you are having difficulties enjoying the best in relationships that you could enjoy.
Remember that your tongue and character can be the only tie breaker to getting you the best in relationships.
How beautiful can life be with all beautiful things happening everyday of life, it is such an amazing journey of love that we as humanity experience, however we have a different perception on the aspect of love itself.
A lot of us have failed to maintain relationships because of not understanding love as an operator of relationships, a lot of times we loose the best for the envy of material that when we get them they become the most bothersome things we can ever imagine, I’ve seen in a lot of times that as a people we advocate for things than the love that is meant to be the most wonderful experience we can have
Love is not selective, it is not selfish, it forgives and gives, as people we should always thrive to love for the right reasons
A lot of times I’ve always wondered why people always start in relationships with great passion and enthusiasm of the person they are getting in a relationship with, they have so many wonderful and beautiful things to say about that individual.
As a relationship progresses things begin to go cold the amazing person that we have always heard about is no longer as amazing as we thought they would, my question is what may have happened in between dates and all those nights that were spent preparing for a wonderful and beautiful relationship? The answer remains the same, most of us we use emotions to justify our feelings about individuals, once those feelings fade that means it’s no longer the person we assumed they are, because we went in for what looks good on an individual that is just the focus of why we claim to love them.
Love is not a feeling it is a lifestyle if you adopt it you will have no problem living in it
The power of consistency in relationships has become more weak and there are many of us who have taken advantage of loose ends in relationships.
We often have a problem in accepting when we are wrong in relationships we often want to find something or someone to blame for our own shortcomings, we are a people that feel challenged when we are shown or told about what we may have done wrong.
Love is not about only great times or only beautiful times it’s also about those moments when we are in that foul mood, when things are not as rosey as they seem to be, remember love is patient, kind, giving and forgiving. If you forgive yourself and take responsibility for your own actions in our relationships then we will definitely enjoy our loving relationships.
Its just the best in Love you and I can establish the best in it
In a lot more than once in life we often look forward to relationships, new ones and those that we may have been in and things did not go well in them.
It is vital that we have a reflective desire to work things out in relationships as we all are aware that love is kind and forgiving, a lot of us today are in pain of the past and still holding on to relationships that are past we cry of what could have been and what we may have had.
The best in Love is to forgive and move forward, love perves way for forgiveness, where there is forgiveness love thrives maybe the reason why you don’t stay long in relationships is because you move on without resolving issues from your past relationships.
Remember to forgive move past your past and live in your present, then you will enjoy the best in love
As a people we often blame others for our relationships not working for our relationships going bad, the best in life is to always look at what you are doing not what someone else is doing.
Most of us today are looking for a perfect relationship, a relationship with that person who has everything, a good look, good house, good car, good this and that and you often forget to look for the one with good love, the love that will build whatever you desire in a relationship.
One wise person said treasure that you just find lying about is not easy to keep but the treasure that you work hard to find is easy to keep because you know how much it cost you to get it, so that good looking guy/woman did you work hard enough on your image to have them?
May I just say there is no perfect relationship out there, if only you understand that none of us as well are perfect we are all work in progress.
In many ways or the other a lot of us are not sure what it means to be in a relationship that is full of Love, joy and peace, we have now got to a point that we believe that every abusive relationship is the most perfect and beautiful relationship.
There is Sentiment of Love which is manifest it just needs you to make a Choice, you have to start by wanting more for yourself first, stop thinking about how someone has to help you get out of situations, make a choice to get out.
If your relationship starts by aguing then it becomes physical don’t wait for a sorry I’ll not do it again, just wave goodbye to it before it becomes a habit that you can not get out, remember every one of us deserves love that is full of peace and joy