A great way of understanding that when you do unto others, you expect them to do unto you what you did to them, they say a rolling stone gather no moss.
Leadership today is like that rolling stone that is gathering no moss, we at some point as Leaders need to get others on our team to progress our vision. Most leaders today never evaluate their own ways of leadership, they simply believe they make the right decisions all the time and there is no one smarter than them, thus because they were smart enough to start the organisation/business/corporation themselves.
Reviewed Leadership is the art of learning from your subordinates giving the best credit when credit is needed, most leaders don’t know how to give credit, but know how to get credit to themselves, let us all be the reviewed leaders who become the best while our teams also progress as the best, let’s learn not to take credit for what they have done but give that credit to them for the growth of our organisations, business and corporations.
I am a product of love, love is not just a word to me, love is not just that song that brings goosebumps when sang, more than just what i have been told about Love, but what have been imprinted in me.
This is a beautiful song of love to which most of us are attracted to in the relationships we posses/relationships that we are in, most of us have never lived a life that is in its entirety been made out of pure love not just words and broken promises. Most of us can not love because of what they believe Love to be/what it represents.
Sentimental Love is the ability of character and life that we breath in the word love, making such a word reality and meaning to all relationships we may find ourselves in. I believe you and I can make a meaning out of the sentiment Love brings in this Sentimental Love.
There are many times when one sits down and think, they sit down and reflect, reflecting on what we may or may not have done in our relationships and life.
We tend to live lives full of regrets and not respond to what we regret on, turning our situations for the better, turning our regrets to respect, responding positively towards our relationships of the past correcting mistakes of our past for the betterment of our present relationships.
Tenable Love is the power to forgive for the sake of you as an individual not for the one that wronged us, forgiveness is for our good not the ones that have wronged us. When we forgive we do it for the betterment of us not them.
I believe we can turn a corner in our relationships and be in this wonderful tenable Love, so that we can be our best in all relationships we build
Constantly I sat down thinking of how hard my life has been, how my mother had to leave me in the care of my father at six months, how I get told I had to be breast fed by my dads mother who is my grandmother by the way, all these situations make one thinks obviously this kid was messed up from the word go.
Most of us become more concerned about how they lived a life that had no mother, no father, no love and maybe a few relationships here and there, this has an effect on how they do things, how they love, how they don’t know how to love and all these other excuses that may keep them in these unspeakable things they do in the name of not being loved enough.
Terrific Love is the passion of creativity and choice of character that no matter ones past, their future is to be lived in greatness, remember love is a lifelong journey and whatever you choose to be in any relationship it’s all you, no one else is responsible for your choices. Let’s just love without excuses and experience this terrific love.
So many relationships are in trouble but because of their insensitive things that the relationship brings, a lot of us are still holding on to these relationships that are crumbling day in and day out.
We as a human race have changed the meaning of Love, when one today claims to love it means there is a particular thing they love you for/something you bring to the table that they don’t have. Our relationships today are not governed by love but governed by whatever value we have both in the society and in our personal life, we love things more than the provider of those things, such that when a relationship ends one remains either worse off than when they got in the relationship or have more than they bargained for in that relationship.
The Balance of Love is understanding the sentimental value of an individual before understanding the influence they have in a relationship. Let’s all love because we understand an individual not understanding gains we can have from an individual, I believe we all can find this Balance of Love
We often cry foul when we loose relationships, we blame anything and anyone for whatever may have happened in our lost relationships.
Sometimes we need to sit down and reflect on what contributed to our relationships to end, what was our role in the whole process of the relationship not working, what is it we could have done better to make things better in that same relationship. A lot of us are quick to judge, quick to blame before we look into how we contribute towards failure of our relationships.
Trinity of Love is knowing how to keep records of what your bad habits are, how these can be corrected, knowing that no one is perfect all of us are work in progress, that is just the wonderful trinity of love, I believe and hope that you and I can do the best we can to rectify mistakes of our failed relationships as we seek for better relationships in life, let’s just love one another.
Sometimes in our relationships we tend to be so hard on both ourselves and the people we proclaim to care for and love, this in turn complicate our relationships.
Its always hard when we have no one to relate to in times when we are in arguments in our relationships, thus at times in the most difficult times in relationships it’s always wise to get to a point of compromise so we can resolve whatever we may have argued about, so that we can still have that special person in our corner when we are going through stuff.
Tender Love is just the way to go, the ability to compromise when the selfish gratification kicks in in our human nature. We can all love but it takes one to be a bigger person to reach a compromise, this is as tender of love as it can be, you and I can and will if we become a bigger individual in our relationships.
It’s amazing how much we so desire to have something in life, once we get that particular thing we don’t do much to improve it, we just relax and enjoy having that desire we once had, we only get a wake up call when something goes wrong with whatever we desired.
Most of us have been hurt one way or the other in relationships, it doesn’t matter weather it’s a family relationship, romantic or friendship, we have been hit hard by our trust and belief in other people who we didn’t expect to hurt us. The problem we often have is how to move on from the damage caused by the hurt we have experienced, and still look and believe in these people the same way as before.
Healing is the power to overcome whatever hurt that you have experienced in relationships, forgiveness to self first is the first step towards healing your wounds of trust and belief, you can not move on in every relationship without forgiveness of yourself and those that hurt you. Most of us today are carrying a lot of burdens from past relationships and it is difficult for us to trust and love moving forward.
Therapeutic Love is the power of knowing how to forgive yourself first for trusting people without knowing that none of us are perfect but are all work in progress, once we understand that, we become therapeutic to ourselves and we begin to love ourselves and live with decisions we have made, taking lessons out of our hurt.
This is the type of Love we don’t have and possess in our lives today but we can, I believe that from now on moving forward, we can have this therapeutic relationship with ourselves and learn to be the best person we can be.
You may have failed many times to achieve your dreams and ideas, to make that dream a reality, to have that idea come to life, there are so many doors that have closed right in your face and it’s nearly that time you are thinking of throwing in the towel.
Most of us forget that, the fact that you had an idea, you had a dream, counts for something in Success, there are many entrepreneurs who today when they tell us how many times they had to fail, we may think they are just telling us a feel good story. Most of the great business owners or great entrepreneurs have failed on one venture or the other and you are not an exception.
Tolerance of Success is the power you have as an individual to keep trying many other doors when others close, the resilience of belief in your ideas, the Continuation of hope, dedicated, drive and Passion, I call that the HDDP factor, you and I can and will despite our downfall we have the tenacity to rise beyond our doubt to make what we believe in stronger.
So what is it going to be, give up or keep knocking?
A lot of times we have a lot to look forward to, the next day if there is an activity that we are so looking forward to, the excitement that comes with that expectation is amazing.
Love in our today’s world can mean a lot to so many people, to some it means just giving as much of what you have to someone you care about, to some it’s just being there when those that you care about need you, to some it’s just that notion of power that we have to control the ones that are crazy romantically about us. Whichever way we may define love in today’s world, it’s always about oneself being looked out for, Love is greater than self, love is sacrificing your own needs to meet the needs of another, this to mean that Love is not selfish, it is not self serving.
Thrilling Love is the art of balancing between our own needs and those of others, knowledge of service to another other than yourself. We are all capable of Loving genuinely if we stop thinking more about ourselves and start thinking about others.
This is just one way of Love, it’s Thrilling Love, I am thrilled and desire for you and I to serve than being served