So many relationships are in trouble but because of their insensitive things that the relationship brings, a lot of us are still holding on to these relationships that are crumbling day in and day out.
We as a human race have changed the meaning of Love, when one today claims to love it means there is a particular thing they love you for/something you bring to the table that they don’t have. Our relationships today are not governed by love but governed by whatever value we have both in the society and in our personal life, we love things more than the provider of those things, such that when a relationship ends one remains either worse off than when they got in the relationship or have more than they bargained for in that relationship.
The Balance of Love is understanding the sentimental value of an individual before understanding the influence they have in a relationship. Let’s all love because we understand an individual not understanding gains we can have from an individual, I believe we all can find this Balance of Love
We often cry foul when we loose relationships, we blame anything and anyone for whatever may have happened in our lost relationships.
Sometimes we need to sit down and reflect on what contributed to our relationships to end, what was our role in the whole process of the relationship not working, what is it we could have done better to make things better in that same relationship. A lot of us are quick to judge, quick to blame before we look into how we contribute towards failure of our relationships.
Trinity of Love is knowing how to keep records of what your bad habits are, how these can be corrected, knowing that no one is perfect all of us are work in progress, that is just the wonderful trinity of love, I believe and hope that you and I can do the best we can to rectify mistakes of our failed relationships as we seek for better relationships in life, let’s just love one another.
Success is the power of your mind influencing your ideas to greatness in reality, we all are born to be successful, it’s how we make that success work or not work in our minds.
The mind is the integral part of our life, whatever the mind thinks it is interpreted to the heart and then action is evident, so then you should think it, speak it, believe it and receive it, most of us today have the most amazing ideas and dreams that could make u s the most successful entrepreneurs of our generation, however the power of our minds determine how big or small your ideas can be.
Success Teacher is your own ability to think bigger than your circumstances, most of us are not where we want to be in terms of excellence and creativity because of the way we think, start thinking bigger and speak it, write it down and receive it, you are your own success teacher so start teaching yourself and I believe both of us can learn from our own success teacher
Leadership is never about self, every time one decides to be in a position of leadership they cease to be themselves or should I say they loose the right to be selfish.
Leadership is taking on responsibilities of both yourself and others, it’s never about yourself, most leaders have forgotten that there are decisions they make that have a greater impact on the collective.
Sacrificial Leadership is the adoption of success for the collective other than self, so we can either think bigger than ourselves to accomplish the goals and desires of others in our care, or kill everyone’s dreams for our selfish gains. Let’s all be sacrificial leaders for our organisations and companies so we can grow together with our teams.
Sometimes in our relationships we tend to be so hard on both ourselves and the people we proclaim to care for and love, this in turn complicate our relationships.
Its always hard when we have no one to relate to in times when we are in arguments in our relationships, thus at times in the most difficult times in relationships it’s always wise to get to a point of compromise so we can resolve whatever we may have argued about, so that we can still have that special person in our corner when we are going through stuff.
Tender Love is just the way to go, the ability to compromise when the selfish gratification kicks in in our human nature. We can all love but it takes one to be a bigger person to reach a compromise, this is as tender of love as it can be, you and I can and will if we become a bigger individual in our relationships.
It’s amazing how much we so desire to have something in life, once we get that particular thing we don’t do much to improve it, we just relax and enjoy having that desire we once had, we only get a wake up call when something goes wrong with whatever we desired.
Most of us have been hurt one way or the other in relationships, it doesn’t matter weather it’s a family relationship, romantic or friendship, we have been hit hard by our trust and belief in other people who we didn’t expect to hurt us. The problem we often have is how to move on from the damage caused by the hurt we have experienced, and still look and believe in these people the same way as before.
Healing is the power to overcome whatever hurt that you have experienced in relationships, forgiveness to self first is the first step towards healing your wounds of trust and belief, you can not move on in every relationship without forgiveness of yourself and those that hurt you. Most of us today are carrying a lot of burdens from past relationships and it is difficult for us to trust and love moving forward.
Therapeutic Love is the power of knowing how to forgive yourself first for trusting people without knowing that none of us are perfect but are all work in progress, once we understand that, we become therapeutic to ourselves and we begin to love ourselves and live with decisions we have made, taking lessons out of our hurt.
This is the type of Love we don’t have and possess in our lives today but we can, I believe that from now on moving forward, we can have this therapeutic relationship with ourselves and learn to be the best person we can be.
You may have failed many times to achieve your dreams and ideas, to make that dream a reality, to have that idea come to life, there are so many doors that have closed right in your face and it’s nearly that time you are thinking of throwing in the towel.
Most of us forget that, the fact that you had an idea, you had a dream, counts for something in Success, there are many entrepreneurs who today when they tell us how many times they had to fail, we may think they are just telling us a feel good story. Most of the great business owners or great entrepreneurs have failed on one venture or the other and you are not an exception.
Tolerance of Success is the power you have as an individual to keep trying many other doors when others close, the resilience of belief in your ideas, the Continuation of hope, dedicated, drive and Passion, I call that the HDDP factor, you and I can and will despite our downfall we have the tenacity to rise beyond our doubt to make what we believe in stronger.
So what is it going to be, give up or keep knocking?
A lot of times we have a lot to look forward to, the next day if there is an activity that we are so looking forward to, the excitement that comes with that expectation is amazing.
Love in our today’s world can mean a lot to so many people, to some it means just giving as much of what you have to someone you care about, to some it’s just being there when those that you care about need you, to some it’s just that notion of power that we have to control the ones that are crazy romantically about us. Whichever way we may define love in today’s world, it’s always about oneself being looked out for, Love is greater than self, love is sacrificing your own needs to meet the needs of another, this to mean that Love is not selfish, it is not self serving.
Thrilling Love is the art of balancing between our own needs and those of others, knowledge of service to another other than yourself. We are all capable of Loving genuinely if we stop thinking more about ourselves and start thinking about others.
This is just one way of Love, it’s Thrilling Love, I am thrilled and desire for you and I to serve than being served
Love is never about what you say as a person, most of us are full of beautiful words than act on those beautiful words we say.
Our relationships in today’s world are full of words and most of these words are empty, words just said at the spare of a moment, we have learnt words to say to get what we desire, we have come to places where what we say just don’t mean what we intend it to mean and we call that Love.
Testimonial Love is based on your ability and position to be principled in what you say, this to mean that what you say should be reflected in your actions. Your relationship and mine should be a testimony to the other person.
I believe you and I can be exemplary in making our relationships be filled with this love that bares a testimony, we can live excitingly in this kind of Love
There is no holding back in what you can visualise and see happening, we are a people and we do get carried away with different things in life which in turn makes us loose sight of the most greatest things life can ever bring to us.
Most of us do not have not because we are not deserving we do not have because we lake vision, when we achieve we stop thinking further than what we have right now, we have become a right now society, where we celebrate and continue to celebrate until our celebrations become history. We as a people have celebrated too much of history than keep celebrating the present, we don’t hunger anymore after we’ve had a little success.
Have the sensational enthusiasm to get more, believe that you were not born just to achieve but outlive any success you achieve, believe you can even if the odds are stacked up against you, the best are not satisfied by position, they are positioned for satisfaction.
Sensational Success is the tangible reality of achievement, the hunger to surpass what is achieved, excellence in productivity of dreams and ideas, a sentiment of choice to stand beyond obstacles. You are your own hero, for heroes to become heroes they became their own heroes first, so just keep dreaming and dream Big