At times we are the problem to what is not going well in our organisations, businesses and institutions, we tend not to see what we do wrong to others and our organisations, businesses and institutions, just because you found something doesn’t mean that you are going to lead it best.
Our leaders of today have no zeal to sacrifice their own interests and make those they lead more comfortable, a comfortable surbodinate is the best surbodinate in shaping you as a wonderful prosperous leader, a lot of leaders forget that they become greater by the way their teams work. A leader is judged by how they lead their teams and how their teams function.
The Accuracy Of Leadership is in the humbleness of putting ones pride aside and empowering a collective, this is how accurate you should be as a leader
Don’t ever worry much about how someone thinks of you, raise your thoughts towards what’s best in your own life, your own dreams and desires you should keep alive, don’t be moved over conversations that are based on another persons opinion but be encouraged by what you are dreaming of.
Most of us are not making the waves that we thought we could because we diluted our dreams with someone else’s opinion about us, whatever opinion one has on you stays their opinion but not who you are. Stop feeling pity for yourself because someone feels pity for you, pity them for your greatness and desire of purpose, you are the only difference between your dream coming to reality and it’s flop, so your choices should always Matter in making you the best person you can ever be.
Adorable Success is the example you set for yourself regardless of what anyone else thinks about you, the survival of your dreams and ideas only at your moment than triggered mantras of other people’s opinion, you are the only person that can achieve your dreams and success, no one else.
Have you ever dreamed a wonderful dream and you would not want to wake up, wanting the beautiful dream to go on and on most of us do not want to wake up because we definitely know that we are so much consumed in dreaming more than advancing the dream to reality.
There are a number of people who when they have dreams they can not wait to wake up write them down and make these dreams a reality. Writing your dream down makes you have a map as to how you may/will make that dream a reality, most successful people have always got a notebook which is either with them always or beside their bed in order to make those notes about how they can turn what they have dreamed about to reality.
Accurate success is the rhythmic way of making excellence in dreams turn to reality, the vision of the brain to visualise what one is excellently Good at turning it to the most valuable aspect of ones greatness. There is no one that can lead your dreams for you, we all have equal opportunities of making what we are truly Good at work for us, so let’s do this
Leadership is never about self it is always about the collective, our world today has leaders that are appointed because of what they may have done for the organisation not how they contribute towards the betterment of the organisation and its purpose.
We have organisations and institutions that have leaders who have no heart for the values of the organisations existence, they are there as per entitlement not qualification, this has for years cost organisations and institutions a lot of money trying to find out why the institutions or organisations are not performing.
Founders of things or organisations, institutions may not be suitable leaders of these institutions or organisations, yes they may have an idea on the foundation of the organisation or institutions but may not have the qualities to run the organisation.
Adaptability Leadership is the ability to recognise as a leader what you are good at and admitting that there areas that you lake and others in your organisation have those skills you don’t, so always have a mindset of the one willing to learn from those that you lead
Let us all be great and inspirational leaders in our organisations, businesses and institutions
Most of our leaders today are so accustomed to just what they know, they don’t grow beyond what they know and they are accustomed to.
When you are a leader growth should always be the greatest thing you possess, when you as an individual grow then it means your team grows much more than anything you can ever imagine. It is however that most leaders see their teams and those they lead not being the best they can ever be, because they themselves as leaders can not grow beyond where they are.
An adventurous leader is the one who inspires their team into growing as they also grow themselves. There is no greater leader that is made of idleness every great leader is made out of what they deposit in their subordinates
Let us all be great leaders in our business, organisations, and institutions
There is nothing that is so exciting than the love that we enjoy having as a people, most of us have not managed to keep relationships because of the way we handle ourselves in such relationships that we have/desire to have.
in most cases a lot of us are always crying about how we are all alone and no one is willing or even has the nerve to ask us out or to ask if we are are in a relationship or not, we often say that there is no one that wants us and no one wants to be with us i any given way, may i just say that there is no one that dose not want to be with anyone, however the behavior of us as a human race distances us from the realities of love as a passport to a great relationship that we may desire.
Our language in our own as a people in families has to tell someone on the outside what kind of an individual one is, most of us believe that whatever we say becomes the law, we believe that we are the reason for everyone to live on egg shells around us, this is why at times we feel lonely and deserted because of the way we speak and act. Have you ever wondered as a human being how many relationships have you as a person ruined up for yourself? just reflect and look into the way that you handle yourself around people. Love is kind, true, giving, forgiving and unselfish, it may be that there is only one or two principles of love that you are not following that is the reason why you are having difficulties enjoying the best in relationships that you could enjoy.
Remember that your tongue and character can be the only tie breaker to getting you the best in relationships.
How beautiful can life be with all beautiful things happening everyday of life, it is such an amazing journey of love that we as humanity experience, however we have a different perception on the aspect of love itself.
A lot of us have failed to maintain relationships because of not understanding love as an operator of relationships, a lot of times we loose the best for the envy of material that when we get them they become the most bothersome things we can ever imagine, I’ve seen in a lot of times that as a people we advocate for things than the love that is meant to be the most wonderful experience we can have
Love is not selective, it is not selfish, it forgives and gives, as people we should always thrive to love for the right reasons
The power of consistency in relationships has become more weak and there are many of us who have taken advantage of loose ends in relationships.
We often have a problem in accepting when we are wrong in relationships we often want to find something or someone to blame for our own shortcomings, we are a people that feel challenged when we are shown or told about what we may have done wrong.
Love is not about only great times or only beautiful times it’s also about those moments when we are in that foul mood, when things are not as rosey as they seem to be, remember love is patient, kind, giving and forgiving. If you forgive yourself and take responsibility for your own actions in our relationships then we will definitely enjoy our loving relationships.
Its just the best in Love you and I can establish the best in it
In a lot more than once in life we often look forward to relationships, new ones and those that we may have been in and things did not go well in them.
It is vital that we have a reflective desire to work things out in relationships as we all are aware that love is kind and forgiving, a lot of us today are in pain of the past and still holding on to relationships that are past we cry of what could have been and what we may have had.
The best in Love is to forgive and move forward, love perves way for forgiveness, where there is forgiveness love thrives maybe the reason why you don’t stay long in relationships is because you move on without resolving issues from your past relationships.
Remember to forgive move past your past and live in your present, then you will enjoy the best in love
As a people we often blame others for our relationships not working for our relationships going bad, the best in life is to always look at what you are doing not what someone else is doing.
Most of us today are looking for a perfect relationship, a relationship with that person who has everything, a good look, good house, good car, good this and that and you often forget to look for the one with good love, the love that will build whatever you desire in a relationship.
One wise person said treasure that you just find lying about is not easy to keep but the treasure that you work hard to find is easy to keep because you know how much it cost you to get it, so that good looking guy/woman did you work hard enough on your image to have them?
May I just say there is no perfect relationship out there, if only you understand that none of us as well are perfect we are all work in progress.