In many ways or the other a lot of us are not sure what it means to be in a relationship that is full of Love, joy and peace, we have now got to a point that we believe that every abusive relationship is the most perfect and beautiful relationship.
There is Sentiment of Love which is manifest it just needs you to make a Choice, you have to start by wanting more for yourself first, stop thinking about how someone has to help you get out of situations, make a choice to get out.
If your relationship starts by aguing then it becomes physical don’t wait for a sorry I’ll not do it again, just wave goodbye to it before it becomes a habit that you can not get out, remember every one of us deserves love that is full of peace and joy
Have you ever wondered why we as humanity sometimes become more obsessed with things that have nothing to do with our relationships?
We tend to want to add things that hurt those we love in our relationships, we tend to make our relationships more of competition than the most wonderful place of love, joy and comfort, we are today more in what our relationships can do for us than what we can do to make our relationships more full of love.
Love has no longer ability in relationships today, there is much more of I get and you get if I get kind of situation, remember that love has qualities that balance relationships it has great giving abilities than receiving abilities, it has more patience abilities than the giving up options, it has more kindness abilities than the mean aspects of life.
Remember to push more of the motion of Love than anything else
There are ways we often do certain things in our lives, we forget the best we have in our relationships, we often complain about what those we are in relationships with do and how they don’t do what we would like them to do.
Our Love has become for things we will want people we are in relationships with to be not the love we actually have for people as people, we love today because there is something we can get out of a relationship, the principles of Love are patience, kindness which most of us have not grasped yet we are only kind to things that come with a relationship forgetting that after you are done with getting what you want from a relationship there is a human being that is hurt in the process
When I am alone I crave someone to be with, even when I’m with people I crave to have a shoulder to cry on, yet in all my efforts there seems to be a complaint in my heart as to why am I not satisfied.
Most of us in our relationships have problems which we create ourselves, we often want to be the ones in control of our relationships yet we forget the sole reason we are in relationships in the first place. Love is the governor of relationships if we allow it to manifest in our relationships.
A lot of us have gone for the benefits of Love which is a relationship that has everything in it, six pack guy, coca-cola bottle body woman, a guy with all the money in the world, a woman that has everything in the word. These are just temporary things that will be driven away by boredom when all of these are achieved then what? If we love for sure and adhere to love principles then we will enjoy its benefits out of love itself
We can love to the best of our knowledge and still benefit from relationships packs
There is a mother out there that sent his son to go and buy bread so they could have breakfast, the son never returned, he has been shot dead by the army of a nation that is meant to protect him.
There is a woman who is in labour yet she will not see what she gave birth to as the hospital she is admitted to is now on lock down taken over by the army of the nation that is meant to protect its citizens, what’s happening in this world we are living in? There is no certainty even to those countries that are already savavaged.
United Nations and the world, Zimbabwe is in turmoil yet you are quite and not responding to the urgency of the matter on the ground. Do something to retain the system of peace to the people of Zimbabwe, do something for peace to be the connection of the people and this wonderful world
No matter how much you have been broken you should always have a spirit of a winner, when you are feeling as if nothing is working for you, may I say that get rid of the pitty mentality start believing in yourself.
A lot of us in our relationships want things done for us, just because he/she is in a relationship with me that means I’ve got to get something out of that particular relationship, Love is not about what you can gain from a relationship but what builds you up in making your relationships much more beautiful.
You can not love without forgiveness, you can not love while you’re still selfish, you cannot love when you want things now without being patient, you cannot love when you are always mean towards others, love is kind and true.
This is just comely love it’s beautiful and calling each and every one of us to enjoy it
At times we become more and more aggressive towards change as they say change is painful, no matter how much we invest in relationships there is nothing that will happen if there is no love.
We often make our emotions a priority in our relationships yet Love has to be the priority, we fail to love with no agenda, we love so we can get something if I can rephrase we use the word love to enter into agreements, its as if love is a passport/ID to a relationship these days, it earns you the right to everything one has in life not what they are to you as an individual.
Sometimes we have to reflect on our contribution in relationships that collapse, ask ourselves what could we have done differently to make it work, my suggestion is love for the sake of a person not for the sake of fame or gain, remember love is not selfish it is kind
This is a reflection of what we may be as humanity, just love within the brood of love