A great way of understanding that when you do unto others, you expect them to do unto you what you did to them, they say a rolling stone gather no moss.
Leadership today is like that rolling stone that is gathering no moss, we at some point as Leaders need to get others on our team to progress our vision. Most leaders today never evaluate their own ways of leadership, they simply believe they make the right decisions all the time and there is no one smarter than them, thus because they were smart enough to start the organisation/business/corporation themselves.
Reviewed Leadership is the art of learning from your subordinates giving the best credit when credit is needed, most leaders don’t know how to give credit, but know how to get credit to themselves, let us all be the reviewed leaders who become the best while our teams also progress as the best, let’s learn not to take credit for what they have done but give that credit to them for the growth of our organisations, business and corporations.
I am a product of love, love is not just a word to me, love is not just that song that brings goosebumps when sang, more than just what i have been told about Love, but what have been imprinted in me.
This is a beautiful song of love to which most of us are attracted to in the relationships we posses/relationships that we are in, most of us have never lived a life that is in its entirety been made out of pure love not just words and broken promises. Most of us can not love because of what they believe Love to be/what it represents.
Sentimental Love is the ability of character and life that we breath in the word love, making such a word reality and meaning to all relationships we may find ourselves in. I believe you and I can make a meaning out of the sentiment Love brings in this Sentimental Love.
There are many times when one sits down and think, they sit down and reflect, reflecting on what we may or may not have done in our relationships and life.
We tend to live lives full of regrets and not respond to what we regret on, turning our situations for the better, turning our regrets to respect, responding positively towards our relationships of the past correcting mistakes of our past for the betterment of our present relationships.
Tenable Love is the power to forgive for the sake of you as an individual not for the one that wronged us, forgiveness is for our good not the ones that have wronged us. When we forgive we do it for the betterment of us not them.
I believe we can turn a corner in our relationships and be in this wonderful tenable Love, so that we can be our best in all relationships we build
So many relationships are in trouble but because of their insensitive things that the relationship brings, a lot of us are still holding on to these relationships that are crumbling day in and day out.
We as a human race have changed the meaning of Love, when one today claims to love it means there is a particular thing they love you for/something you bring to the table that they don’t have. Our relationships today are not governed by love but governed by whatever value we have both in the society and in our personal life, we love things more than the provider of those things, such that when a relationship ends one remains either worse off than when they got in the relationship or have more than they bargained for in that relationship.
The Balance of Love is understanding the sentimental value of an individual before understanding the influence they have in a relationship. Let’s all love because we understand an individual not understanding gains we can have from an individual, I believe we all can find this Balance of Love
Sometimes in our relationships we tend to be so hard on both ourselves and the people we proclaim to care for and love, this in turn complicate our relationships.
Its always hard when we have no one to relate to in times when we are in arguments in our relationships, thus at times in the most difficult times in relationships it’s always wise to get to a point of compromise so we can resolve whatever we may have argued about, so that we can still have that special person in our corner when we are going through stuff.
Tender Love is just the way to go, the ability to compromise when the selfish gratification kicks in in our human nature. We can all love but it takes one to be a bigger person to reach a compromise, this is as tender of love as it can be, you and I can and will if we become a bigger individual in our relationships.
It’s amazing how much we so desire to have something in life, once we get that particular thing we don’t do much to improve it, we just relax and enjoy having that desire we once had, we only get a wake up call when something goes wrong with whatever we desired.
Most of us have been hurt one way or the other in relationships, it doesn’t matter weather it’s a family relationship, romantic or friendship, we have been hit hard by our trust and belief in other people who we didn’t expect to hurt us. The problem we often have is how to move on from the damage caused by the hurt we have experienced, and still look and believe in these people the same way as before.
Healing is the power to overcome whatever hurt that you have experienced in relationships, forgiveness to self first is the first step towards healing your wounds of trust and belief, you can not move on in every relationship without forgiveness of yourself and those that hurt you. Most of us today are carrying a lot of burdens from past relationships and it is difficult for us to trust and love moving forward.
Therapeutic Love is the power of knowing how to forgive yourself first for trusting people without knowing that none of us are perfect but are all work in progress, once we understand that, we become therapeutic to ourselves and we begin to love ourselves and live with decisions we have made, taking lessons out of our hurt.
This is the type of Love we don’t have and possess in our lives today but we can, I believe that from now on moving forward, we can have this therapeutic relationship with ourselves and learn to be the best person we can be.
A lot of times we have a lot to look forward to, the next day if there is an activity that we are so looking forward to, the excitement that comes with that expectation is amazing.
Love in our today’s world can mean a lot to so many people, to some it means just giving as much of what you have to someone you care about, to some it’s just being there when those that you care about need you, to some it’s just that notion of power that we have to control the ones that are crazy romantically about us. Whichever way we may define love in today’s world, it’s always about oneself being looked out for, Love is greater than self, love is sacrificing your own needs to meet the needs of another, this to mean that Love is not selfish, it is not self serving.
Thrilling Love is the art of balancing between our own needs and those of others, knowledge of service to another other than yourself. We are all capable of Loving genuinely if we stop thinking more about ourselves and start thinking about others.
This is just one way of Love, it’s Thrilling Love, I am thrilled and desire for you and I to serve than being served
There is no holding back in what you can visualise and see happening, we are a people and we do get carried away with different things in life which in turn makes us loose sight of the most greatest things life can ever bring to us.
Most of us do not have not because we are not deserving we do not have because we lake vision, when we achieve we stop thinking further than what we have right now, we have become a right now society, where we celebrate and continue to celebrate until our celebrations become history. We as a people have celebrated too much of history than keep celebrating the present, we don’t hunger anymore after we’ve had a little success.
Have the sensational enthusiasm to get more, believe that you were not born just to achieve but outlive any success you achieve, believe you can even if the odds are stacked up against you, the best are not satisfied by position, they are positioned for satisfaction.
Sensational Success is the tangible reality of achievement, the hunger to surpass what is achieved, excellence in productivity of dreams and ideas, a sentiment of choice to stand beyond obstacles. You are your own hero, for heroes to become heroes they became their own heroes first, so just keep dreaming and dream Big
There is power in all of us in everything we do, the power is then reduced to force when we don’t develop to make power Mighty, a lot of our leadership today is more of what they are not able to do than what they are truly able to.
We have leaders in today’s world who are much concerned about their image more than their character, most of our leaders today spend too much time building an image than building their characters, they say that an empty vessel makes the loudest noise, such is our leaders in today’s world, they have no substance yet they speak about substance, they have the image but that is not enough to maintain harmony, peace, inspiration, impact and dedication of excellence in their organisations, institutions and businesses.
How you look does not count much, it is what you possess as an individual in your character that makes the cut in Leadership, you can not be an inspiration to people you don’t know about.
Able leadership is the influence of character in excellence towards a people that are interested in doing great, the hunger of consistency in character to achieve the common goal of the collective.
Let us all be excellent leaders in our organisations, institutions and businesses
We make it because we want to make it, we get challenges that are bigger because we can afford to go a mile higher. Most of us are too reluctant to become the best we can ever be, this is because we are very comfortable with excuses.
Making it is no one else’s initiative it is your own, don’t live a life that is full of excuses as to why you have not made it to your excellence and dedication to your passion and dreams. A lot of us have dreams and ideas so great that it often scares them on how to execute them, hence excuses become part of their lives. We are all given a chance or chances in life the difference between those that make it and those that don’t is that those that make it are dedicated to finishing what they start and they take their chances, hence those who don’t make it are full of excuses as to why they could not achieve or take their chances given to them.
Sensible Success is the combination of sacrifice and dedication, the passion of excellence in taking chances given, producing passion in whatever you truly are Good at. It’s always what you are good at that paves a way towards success for you, no one else can do it for you but yourself.