Constantly I sat down thinking of how hard my life has been, how my mother had to leave me in the care of my father at six months, how I get told I had to be breast fed by my dads mother who is my grandmother by the way, all these situations make one thinks obviously this kid was messed up from the word go.
Most of us become more concerned about how they lived a life that had no mother, no father, no love and maybe a few relationships here and there, this has an effect on how they do things, how they love, how they don’t know how to love and all these other excuses that may keep them in these unspeakable things they do in the name of not being loved enough.
Terrific Love is the passion of creativity and choice of character that no matter ones past, their future is to be lived in greatness, remember love is a lifelong journey and whatever you choose to be in any relationship it’s all you, no one else is responsible for your choices. Let’s just love without excuses and experience this terrific love.
The power to achieve is never given, but the connection to reality is given, this to mean that we as individuals from birth we have the ability to achieve whatever we desire to achieve, we have to put our minds to making what we desire work, dedication towards excellence is not given to an individual, it’s a choice.
Most of us are not going the direction we hope we could have taken, because we chose not to, we procrastinated, thought maybe we could or couldn’t, we still are procrastinating and procrastinating is by choice no one gives you excuses of procrastinating. We have in this generation more powerful entrepreneurs who are still at ground zero, they are still believing they will one day, one day becomes a year and a year becomes another so on and so on it goes yet they still have not started doing anything to progress their vision.
Unlevelled Success is the ability of our minds to believe without procrastination that whatever we set our minds to, we can achieve no matter how many people are in it and in our way, it’s not level yet, you and I should level this, remember you are the force behind your own success
So many relationships are in trouble but because of their insensitive things that the relationship brings, a lot of us are still holding on to these relationships that are crumbling day in and day out.
We as a human race have changed the meaning of Love, when one today claims to love it means there is a particular thing they love you for/something you bring to the table that they don’t have. Our relationships today are not governed by love but governed by whatever value we have both in the society and in our personal life, we love things more than the provider of those things, such that when a relationship ends one remains either worse off than when they got in the relationship or have more than they bargained for in that relationship.
The Balance of Love is understanding the sentimental value of an individual before understanding the influence they have in a relationship. Let’s all love because we understand an individual not understanding gains we can have from an individual, I believe we all can find this Balance of Love
Your power of excellence is all in you as an individual, there is no one responsible for your success or failure but you, there is no one else that can change your perception of what you want to be but you.
These are the days where we as a people have to be more careful not to let our minds be consumed by laziness, we have great ideas, we have great opportunities to make these wonderful ideas come to life, no matter how difficult it is and how flooded the market where your ideas are based on, keep doing what you can to make it through the floods of the market.
Brewed Success is the creativity of your mind, aimed at excellence in doing what you are truly passionate and good at doing, most of us have the ability and desire to succeed but seem stagnant, this is because we lost control of what we are truly passionate and good at, to following what everyone else tries and not good and passionate about, Brewed success is a generic flaw of what you are truly good at and are just passionate about, brew your own success I believe you can and have the tools to do it just focus
We often cry foul when we loose relationships, we blame anything and anyone for whatever may have happened in our lost relationships.
Sometimes we need to sit down and reflect on what contributed to our relationships to end, what was our role in the whole process of the relationship not working, what is it we could have done better to make things better in that same relationship. A lot of us are quick to judge, quick to blame before we look into how we contribute towards failure of our relationships.
Trinity of Love is knowing how to keep records of what your bad habits are, how these can be corrected, knowing that no one is perfect all of us are work in progress, that is just the wonderful trinity of love, I believe and hope that you and I can do the best we can to rectify mistakes of our failed relationships as we seek for better relationships in life, let’s just love one another.
Success is the power of your mind influencing your ideas to greatness in reality, we all are born to be successful, it’s how we make that success work or not work in our minds.
The mind is the integral part of our life, whatever the mind thinks it is interpreted to the heart and then action is evident, so then you should think it, speak it, believe it and receive it, most of us today have the most amazing ideas and dreams that could make u s the most successful entrepreneurs of our generation, however the power of our minds determine how big or small your ideas can be.
Success Teacher is your own ability to think bigger than your circumstances, most of us are not where we want to be in terms of excellence and creativity because of the way we think, start thinking bigger and speak it, write it down and receive it, you are your own success teacher so start teaching yourself and I believe both of us can learn from our own success teacher
Leadership is never about self, every time one decides to be in a position of leadership they cease to be themselves or should I say they loose the right to be selfish.
Leadership is taking on responsibilities of both yourself and others, it’s never about yourself, most leaders have forgotten that there are decisions they make that have a greater impact on the collective.
Sacrificial Leadership is the adoption of success for the collective other than self, so we can either think bigger than ourselves to accomplish the goals and desires of others in our care, or kill everyone’s dreams for our selfish gains. Let’s all be sacrificial leaders for our organisations and companies so we can grow together with our teams.
Sometimes in our relationships we tend to be so hard on both ourselves and the people we proclaim to care for and love, this in turn complicate our relationships.
Its always hard when we have no one to relate to in times when we are in arguments in our relationships, thus at times in the most difficult times in relationships it’s always wise to get to a point of compromise so we can resolve whatever we may have argued about, so that we can still have that special person in our corner when we are going through stuff.
Tender Love is just the way to go, the ability to compromise when the selfish gratification kicks in in our human nature. We can all love but it takes one to be a bigger person to reach a compromise, this is as tender of love as it can be, you and I can and will if we become a bigger individual in our relationships.
There are moments in life when change is necessary for one to progress in life, however Change is not easy and it is a process that is painful.
In life we become so comfortable with what we are and what we have such that we are hurt when things start to shift and change in our lives, change is the most difficult thing to accept, the life of an eagle is the one that most of us should learn from, an Eagle is not comfortable with the speed and power she has for a season, she gets to a time of desiring change in speed and power.
The Eagles desire for more success in whatever she does, brings her to go through a painful process of hurting herself developing new ways of making sure her vision, speed and power improves drastically.
Most of us in Success are afraid to move from what we know to improving what we know, change doesn’t mean changing everything about what we know, just like an eagle, all she knows is to fly high, have a great vision, have great speed, and power to catch her pray, hence she does everything in her power to improve her strength and ability to do that with greater than before speed and power.
Transforming Success is a process of acceptance of excellence in your success, accommodating the will to change and feel the pinch of change for the better, Moving out of your comfort zone and expanding your horizons.
You and I need this Transforming success and we can do more out of our own comfort zones
It’s amazing how much we so desire to have something in life, once we get that particular thing we don’t do much to improve it, we just relax and enjoy having that desire we once had, we only get a wake up call when something goes wrong with whatever we desired.
Most of us have been hurt one way or the other in relationships, it doesn’t matter weather it’s a family relationship, romantic or friendship, we have been hit hard by our trust and belief in other people who we didn’t expect to hurt us. The problem we often have is how to move on from the damage caused by the hurt we have experienced, and still look and believe in these people the same way as before.
Healing is the power to overcome whatever hurt that you have experienced in relationships, forgiveness to self first is the first step towards healing your wounds of trust and belief, you can not move on in every relationship without forgiveness of yourself and those that hurt you. Most of us today are carrying a lot of burdens from past relationships and it is difficult for us to trust and love moving forward.
Therapeutic Love is the power of knowing how to forgive yourself first for trusting people without knowing that none of us are perfect but are all work in progress, once we understand that, we become therapeutic to ourselves and we begin to love ourselves and live with decisions we have made, taking lessons out of our hurt.
This is the type of Love we don’t have and possess in our lives today but we can, I believe that from now on moving forward, we can have this therapeutic relationship with ourselves and learn to be the best person we can be.