Love is the best thing God gave to human kind, kindness comes with it, i find it more frustrating to see someone giving yet their gesture is not at all kind, most of us that grew up in townships understand love in a very different way. If one may agree with me if you are from areas where i grew up in, beating a woman meant that you loved them? and being overprotective and possessive meant that you love them right? If i can put it in this way, for Jesus to go through pain it was for God to show love towards us, but God was not the one beating and tearing Jesus, love is not love until you give it away just love and see how excellent your relationship becomes with everyone, be blessed and be a blessing