There is a lot of us in relationships, and such relationships are just what we solemnly wanted, people get to fight so hard to get the relationship they so wish for, a lot of us are in relationships which are more decoration than adoration. Today relationships are treated as achievement than a lifestyle, we have got people that we talk to about what relationships we want, we even now have advice on how beautiful one has to be/how handsome one has to be to get the most glamorous relationship. May i just help someone who is still in that illusion, there is a simple thing that one has to be in a relationship for, it is to love and care not to get and show, she is not a trophy that your friends got to hail you for. Woman he is not your trophy to show to your girlfriends, he is human he wants to be loved than shown around/paraded like a trophy, more of us have forgotten to love in our relationships thus when it becomes more tough we are stressed and the best way is quitting, we have more quitters than lovers. The seed of love is all about loving no matter how one one looks, how they irritate you, they are just in your life for a reason, be blessed and be a blessing

My life feels like one of a lonely man, there is no one close to talk to, my world i try to create is misconceived, there is no ambition anymore to love, as i love i am re-payed with just heartache, tell me of a world that i can build what is right for me. This is a poem that most of us are singing in our relationships, we re-cite this poem over and over again, it may not be the exact words, but the meaning is the same. Most of us in our relationships suffer the pain of loving, the pain of giving the best in our relationships. May i just help someone today the comfort of love is loving to the best of your ability no matter when you feel your back is pushed against the wall, Love has no negativity in it so shall be your attitude in your relationship. Always have this positive attitude give more, love more, forgive more, even those things that do not make you the best and do not define your true self forgive for those. May we all find this comfort of Love and just build our successful relationships, remember a healthy relationship is hard work, be blessed and be a blessing

There are times i just feel like i have to love, and when i do so i feel like i am not getting anything back, there are a lot more of us who feel the same in our relationship, we often feel like we give more in our relationships and receive less. Let me try and be of help to someone today, i personally believe that the ambition of love has to be driven by your understanding of the person you have a relationship with. I have in years tried to understand why i have not had long lasting relationships, the answer i found out was that i have been more selfish than loving, it has always been about me and my feelings not another person’s feelings, ambition of love has to be sharing and patience plays a great role in keeping a relationship together. Most of us are in relationships and we give less time to them, we give less commitment to those relationships, a relationship has to have a driving force, this force has to be ambitious, and that ambition is love that is just as simple as it is, be blessed and be a blessing