There are times when we believe in our hearts and mind that truly and well we are in the right place and the right time, however situations and the reality of it is that we are not. Most of us have been in years been in relationships that we believe may have, or that we believe are working, we may also have chased the dreams of those that we think we are going to be with for the rest of our lives, yet we are in those years building up sand castles that when the tail of wind blows they also blow away. Love has its tail if our relationships are built on love then we are guaranteed success in them, if we honor ourselves first then honor those that we love, care for ourselves first then those that we love, speak good about ourselves first then those that we love, above all respect ourselves then we have transferred the respect to those that we love. This is the tail of love,  i pray and believe that when you follow it surely we will enjoy our relationships, be blessed and be a blessing