A lot of us get into relationships and we are just not that confident in the relationships that we involve ourselves into, i have at times wondered why we tell ourselves we love yet we are offended by the truth, we are not trusting and we do not care about each one of us feelings. Our relationships today suffer because of no transparency, we as people have lost the value of transparency and we often hide either our feelings/our statements because we want to be nice in relationships, let me say this to someone if you hide the truth and hide your feelings i have learnt myself that you are doing more harm in your relationship than good. If you are transparent tell someone who you claim to love how you feel, tell them the truth even though it hurts, transparency hurts and it builds relationships, it holds them together, that indeed is transparent love, while you at that route be blessed as well as being a blessing