A lot of times, most of us want to be called the nice people and we invest so much time on wanting to please yet we are hiding the truth, most of us are in relationships not because we love, we are just in those relationships because we just want to be nice. Truth be told if a lot of us become honest we would tell such people its just good for us to be friends, yes there is nothing wrong about crushing someone’s hopes male/female, love is kind, you will not be kind to yourself by pretending to be in a relationship because you want to be nice instead you are being nasty to yourself, Let us all be honest and remove those shackles that are binding us and walk in the truthful love, be blessed and be a blessing